Decades back, people around the World were not so selfish. A few centuries back, people were not that much selfish as they were few decades back. This shows more and more people will become selfish as years, months, weeks or days passes by. Selfishness to grow more in sometime. The sometime will be since the year 2023 and so there will be rapid increase of selfishness. Since the crises of Pandemic still going on people have enough time. People just not taking care of others. But people strictly investing their own time, money, knowledge over them for themselves, and so for their relatives to some extent.

Starting With Little Things, Lifestyle – Today & Few Decades Back

For example, a decade back people were too good to support even their friends by providing vehicles, gas-cylinders, etc. and so on social media: comments, likes, etc. People have become too much selfish today to do even a small favor without any intention of gaining something out of that. You’ll be shocked to notice your siblings or relatives and friends give lame excuses not to help you in some cases, where you need their help the most.

If you ask anything or call someone close to you or not, he or she pretend to be too busy to know what you’ll be asking for. Forget about what you want from them, but here they pretend to ignore knowing what you’ll be asking for. A phone call last month followed by another phone call this month reminds them that the case would be similar, and so they don’t pick your phone call this time.

They if don’t know what to answer you then it’s fine, but your phone call not picked would surely hurt you right?

You know, a few decades back, people used to visit homes to know how their siblings, relatives or friends doing. Today, it’s logical that from once in a week to once in three months, people visiting the homes of their siblings, relatives or friends. A visit to one’s own sibling’s home without informing him or her would turn out to hurt you. This is so because few other relatives of you and your so called sibling would be enjoying a get-together. This is where, you’ll be shocked to know that you were not invited.

You’ll be in a state of wonder what’s wrong with you? So, you’ll stop visiting your siblings, relatives or friends without informing them.

People Have This Common Story / Selfishness To Grow

It’s been noticed since couple of decades that some friends to whom, you’ll become so close that you wouldn’t hesitate to help them. He (your friend) will take your help (a loan) even if your intention is not to take back the money he owes you. Here, days, weeks and months passes by and you won’t be called again by that person, who frequently used to call you.

You want to know, without any intention of taking back your loan-money as mentioned, and you would call him. Shockingly, he would never pick your phone. Forget about your money, which you lost, you lost your friend too. However, such friends not worthy of friendship. Right?

To mix up things not too much, it’s good to go with what’s mentioned earlier. People have become so selfish that if they buy a new car, they won’t allow you to use it even if the car owner is your own sibling. Though he used to say you “take my car (old one) if ever you want to take your family anywhere”. You wonder and that sounded good to you, where your brother offering something for you.

Soon, he buys a new car after selling his old car. You wouldn’t know that and you by keeping in mind that you’re allowed to use his car, and so you ask him. But this time, you’ll be shocked! He refuses to give you his new car to you. He prefers to keep the new car in a way, where selfishness to grow more, comes definitely to your mind. You won’t mind and use a cab, move forward, and by this time, you’ll never ask him anything else too.

Selfish Hosts, My Experience & Selfishness To Grow

I have so much to say, but here few things or, one or two would let you know how selfishness to grow in sometime. More selfishness to grow just rightly from 2023. Some people have become rich and poor people have become poorer. An emotional feeling, which caught my attention when someone passed away more than a year and a half back.

I told myself, “it’s the pandemic and still I need to visit the family members of the deceased to make them feel some comfort”. I’m good in talking funny and all people used to like me. But not on this occasion. I visited the family members of the deceased, wearing mask. They were not so sad. They were somewhat tired because they used to spend a lot of money everyday for their hospitalized father, who passed away. All members were there.

Interestingly, the three sons of the deceased wanted me to sit in the drawing room. The lady, the widow of the deceased went back to the kitchen after speaking for five to six minutes to me. She brought a cup of tea as I was talking to her three sons. I have to remove my mask to have the tea. Immediately one of their three sons told me, “please keep the mask in your pocket”. Smilingly, but by laughing from inside, I replied, that’s a good idea, I have to go back home, and so it’s good not to throw the mask! I was a bit hurt though I finished the tea.

I Saw Selfishness To Grow From Here

Immediately, I told all three of them that I just want to smoke outside, and I will comeback in couple of minutes. Thinking not too much, I took few puffs and went back inside. Shockingly, everyone disappeared. However, the little six year old girl called all of them by saying, “uncle has come again”. No one listened, but after I waited for two minutes, just one of them appeared. He didn’t told me to come inside.

So, I told him, “don’t worry this can happen to everyone because death is inevitable”. I had to leave and I did so and went back to my home all the way to my home feeling hurt a lot.

It’s Communal Selfishness To Grow More & More

You maybe aware of the victims of the mosque in New Zealand, which was attacked and how well Jacinda Ardern responded. Also recently, Canada’s Islamic Center was attacked, and Canada’s Justin Trudeau responded very well. But in India, it’s opposite. The govt in India promotes terrorism and violence against minorities to sit as long as they can to rule the country. This happens in India due to fake news to promote hatred against minorities.

You, I, we and all maybe not so good to our some of the relatives and friends. But all we do is act promptly to speak against atrocities over our communities. If 20 people of your religion attack a man from other religion, you would try hard to find the fact.

You’ll feel a bit worried and condemn after knowing the truth. But again a fake news comes in your way. It says the man abused your religion and so angry 20 men attacked him. Here, you won’t try to find that this news report is fake because of the communal selfishness. You, immediately spread or circulate this fake news and this fake news would spread like a wild fire. Likewise, Russia attacked Ukraine, entire world is against Russia. What about Palestine people, Iraq people, Afghanistan people, etc.

Yes, Israel was so brutal against Palestine and still attacking innocents.

Yes, Selfishness To Grow More

Many from India supported Israel instead of Palestine. Not to go deep in the past, it’s good work of some good people and because of them, the World is progressing. India’s many many students troubled in Ukraine, but what good Indian govt did for them? Nothing because of the selfishness, the Indian govt acted neutrally. Did nothing good for the students.

The govt sacrificed the lives and future of Indian students to benefit from importing a lot on cheap rates from Russia. Selfishness in politics, education, families, a group of friends, relatives and communities would grow. No one can stop this unless fake reports not circulated.

It’s growing already and since centuries, decades, years, months, weeks and days. Selfishness would grow more. Why not? People are bothered too much about their own families. Friendship is good at present because friendship has some rules and limitations to follow. However, all friends have one thing in common, even if they’re free or have time, they act or show that they’re busy.

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