You maybe a clean person if all the bad and many more wrongs you haven’t done so far. In the context of how to forgive all, you’re too close to forgive everyone to move forward and live a happy life or the happiest life since you’re clean or wanting to forgive all. You would not like to forgive people, who hurt you or abuse you. But do you know what all you did so far in your life, maybe unintentionally you did hurt someone, or showed some people a wrong-way.
Maybe, you can look into the past as what little bad or more, you did. And if not to others, then to your parents, who were hurt on some occasions in which you did wrong.
Maybe your siblings were left in anger because of your awkward activity. They were even though left in anger upon you as your siblings, but you’re responsible here. Maybe, unintentionally you hurt your sibling or siblings, but it takes a little effort for you to forgive all. Learning from your life experiences, helps a lot.
If a person hurts you and it’s wrong to blame his or her entire family to not invite. Tell him or her, “you hurt me, but I’ve no grudge with your family members, and so I’ve invited them, and I’ll hopefully forgive you in future”. This way, it’s simple to not carry on with a get-together without the other three to four or more members joining you. They’re not wrong, and so why they need to be left out because of a single bad behavior of just one person?
Take things easy to know how to forgive all
Remember if you learn not, how to forgive all, and if not so then who’ll forgive you, even for your minor and unintentional mistake, would he or she forgive you. In this context of how to forgive all, you’re in a world of ignoring people, who look lesser in value to you, but don’t you know they might be highly valuable individuals. So, to take things easy, come forward and forgive all to move forward. Isn’t it?
Again, if you’re on the other side. You’ve to deal with your own affairs and so you need to ignore a person to whom, even if you asked again and again for forgiveness. You’ll be not forgiven, because of the ego of that person and the position he or she holds in front of others, related to you too, to let you down a bit more.
Their arrogance does not matter because, you’ll be highlighted or exposed in a way as an angry person. People think they’re wise, and many others would like to reunite you and that person. They’ll ask that person to forgive you, and this doesn’t matter anything to that person. He or she comes up with some pathetic reason.
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He or she would let others know, what was his or her mistake and where was his or her fault? People would take this and ask you to tell what was that person’s mistake on which you were so angry? You would say so many things that come to your mind and heart. They would not believe. The clear point here is, that person should have asked you, what was his or her mistake instead of involving others.
You asked him or her for forgiveness and he or she, should ask you alone, what was his or her mistake. This is the best way to ask directly to you. This sounds clear and specific, right?
He or she instead of saying to others, who also are related to you, should have asked you, what was his or her mistake. You asked him or her repeatedly “to forgive you”, but not frequently. Yes, not frequently, because you think you would be insulted if you ask for forgiveness, again and again, in quick time. Yes, again there’s a BIG reason for him or her to ask you.
He or she would let others that; what was his or her mistake and where was his or her fault? People would take this and ask you to tell what was that person’s mistake on which you were so angry? You would say so many things that come to your mind and heart. They would not believe. The clear point here is, that person should have asked you, what was his or her mistake instead of involving others.
An old man says:
“My uncles and aunts used to invite just 2-3 of us including may parents. But we were SIX in all, leaving behind 2-3 of us to stay at home, not invited for the party”.
That used to happen decades back. But this is modern era, where people want their kids to have outing experiences with minimal expenses. If they can’t bear the expenses of outside dinners, then they depend upon the invites. So that their children get what they like in a similar way like that of going out. This matters a lot.
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You asked him or her for forgiveness and he or she should ask you what was his or her mistake directly, right?
He or she instead of complaining to others, who also are related to you, should have asked you, what was his or her mistake. You asked him or her repeatedly “to forgive you”, but not frequently. Yes, again there’s a BIG reason for him or her to ask.
This is pure ego issue. Don’t let him or her dominate you, just ignore what has happened and move forward. If you learn how to forgive all, then it’s possible that no one will be in that position to not forgive you. Be kind, but follow the middle way. Don’t be so much more polite or so much more bold. People need not fear you or need not eat you, so to say. And so, forgive all and move forward.
Remember if you learn not, how to forgive all, and if not so then who’ll forgive you, even for your minor and unintentional mistake, would he or she forgive you. In this context of how to forgive all, you’re in a world of ignoring people, who look lesser in value to you, but don’t you know they might be highly valuable individuals. So, to take things easy, come forward and forgive all to move forward. Isn’t it?
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