You might be busy in achieving your short term or maybe long term goals and you need no disturbances. You’re working hard at the moment while you need to spend a good time as well. To go further in deeply as how people hurt you with their no intentions as such but it’s disturbing. This shows your way of thinking that you get hurt by people, who play a big role in your life. Let’s first see how you get hurt by the use of social media and other activities that hurts you.

How Social Media Hurts

Talking of social media, the first thing comes in mind is either WhatsApp or Facebook. Many people like you post a lot everyday or every week and get not that much likes as you expect. In some cases your post gets not even a single like or comment, which disappoints you. Even your comments to some of your friends’ post on Facebook get ignored while others get replied. This is today’s world dear you, don’t get too involved with the outcomes.

There might be few Facebook and WhatsApp groups in which you might been linked to. As a result, you tend to use social media as your time pass and for information as well.

Also you come to see that after you thanked your friend for his or her good post, he or she might ignore you. This happens usually as he or she might ignore you because of their busy life. At the same time your friend might be replying to your other friends and not you. Well, this is hurting, isn’t it?

Just what you need to do means that you should keep on appreciating people as much as you can. When you come up with thumbs ups and emojis that pleases others including those who ignore you then it’s enough. This is another way of spending good time on social media without posting anything from your side.

Issues with Relatives

You might also get hurt if you get no invites from your relatives though they might invite your siblings. In this case what you need to do is just concentrate on your work and try hard to accomplish your tasks. Be in your own world and keep trying to get results in your favor and keep climbing steps of success. Thus, when you get good success in your life and you might be on top level, people come to you. Your relatives visit you and want to talk to you more often and you get rewards of successful life as well. Ironically, your composed attitude and patience brought happiness in your life.

Ultimately, the time will surely come when you’ll find no time for even your own kids and this way life goes. Patience and perseverance wins you a happy life. So, be happy and get going to feel better and better by enjoying your life with proper schedule maintenance.

Summary

All things faced with group discussions and being on social media and with social outdoor activities, you get hurt. Yet, you need to keep patience as you get targeted by your friends on group discussions. Your patience and hard work might make your relatives as well to think other way. However, it’s your life and self respect is more important for you so ignore all issues and keep going.

Let the world think whatever they like, you need to choose a right path and follow it.

Khalid M Raza