Misusing one’s behavior to dominate the bride’s parents by those of the groom’s in marriages should be condemned. People are so much worried over their daughters’ marriage that they can go to any extent. They buy land as soon as their daughter gets admission in school only to think about her marriage. It’s absurd and totally against humanity to spend money on marriages. Simple marriage always will be successful.
If you think too much about the marriage of your daughter and keep saving money for her then you’re doing a crime. This should be taken seriously as groom’s parents if not demand money, they want better food and better marriage ceremony. Thus, it puts pressure on the bride’s parents and they try their best to spend more on marrying off their daughter. It’s often seen that people feel proud that they haven’t asked dowry. But from the bride’s parents they demanded only better marriage ceremony. Again it’s the misuse of making the girl’s parents to spend more. It was advisable that finish off with no marriage ceremony and take a look over marriages to be successful.
It has been seen that people spend huge money on marriage and the marriage picks up with a take off with quarreling. Thus, the marriage ends up with inevitable divorce. Most men in Muslim society flaunt on their marriage by boasting that they’ve taken not a penny from the girl’s home. Do they know how much burden they’d put over the girl’s parents to spend huge amount on marriage ceremony. World is moving towards new heights and technology is used for easy life. Then why not the marriages should be more easier and performed in accordance with no demands in between.
Khalid M Raza
